How to Seduce Your Crush

The act of seduction is not simply a matter of how to interest the person you have a crush on in a sexual encounter, but how to set the mood to seduce your crush. The moment and the place must be right for both of you if you want to seduce someone you care about. To begin with, you must find a way to make the person you have a crush on see you as desirable.

If you want to seduce the person you have a crush on make it romantic and sexy. Being able to seduce someone by getting him or her drunk, or high is shameful and is not the way to form a relationship with the person you have a crush on. It is merely a sexual conquest.

To begin, to set the scene to seduce your crush the first step is to look appealing. Try to be attractive to your crush and you will have passed the fist hurdle in preparing to seduce him/her. The next step is to find out what your crush finds alluring, what turns them on. Never assume that the simple act of trying to seduce your crush will be a turn on to them. Most people want to feel that you are making an effort to get to know them and how they feel about things, not just waiting to see if you can seduce them. Coming on too strong often has more of a chance of you losing the person you care about than culminating in the perfect ending to your evening together. An evening that is obviously no more than your leading up to trying to seduce someone is too transparent and will more likely be a turn off than a turn on. You want to seduce your crush not scare them away.

If you really want to seduce your crush plan a romantic encounter. You can make it dinner at a favorite restaurant or maybe a candlelit dinner at your home. The atmosphere you create will make a big difference. If it’s at your home, put on music that you know your crush likes. Cooking a meal that they like shows that you are receptive to their preferences. This type of evening will help set the mood for you to seduce your crush.

Perhaps you want to try to use a little music to help seduce your crush. A slow dance can set the mood bringing you both closer to a moment of arousal. Remember that for most people it’s first thing they see and then what they feel that leads up to that special moment. You will know when you should make the final move to seduce your crush. The signals will be there. You’ll see something in his/her eyes that will tell you the scene has been set, the moment is there and all you need to do to seduce this person, who you have such strong feelings for, is act on it.