Understand that men are also shy
The most important thing that you need to understand is that men are also shy around girls. The only edge they have over women is that they are much better in hiding their nervousness and at times, they do take an initiative to start the conversation with a girl.
Understand that it is much better if you approach a guy as compared to a guy approaching you. This not only gives you the leverage of choice, but also makes a good impression - men like women who are strong from inside.
Do not talk too much
When a person is confused, it is natural that he/she generally will talk much more than in usual routine. This can really put a man off. Always stay in control of yourself and try to be casual.
If you are person who likes to talk, then talk about significant things, not the girly talk which can suck a life out of a man.
The first priority of the girl should be to get dressed properly and then think about what she will say. If your appearance is good, men will automatically be attracted towards you and this will make your job all the more easier.
Remember that your dress should be decent and indicate your taste.
Try to be natural
Laughter is a sign of confidence. Feel light and try to act as naturally as you can. This will bring out you natural emotions.
Men look for signs to understand women and if you are not your natural self, not only will you be uncomfortable, they will also try to avoid you.