Know the signs of a loser:
The very first step is to spot the loser around you but before that it is very important to know the signs of a loser. Identify them by thinking about the people around you who are proving to be a big stone on your way to success. The four major signs of losers are: they are the ones who discourage you, they are not opportunist and are pessimist, justify their failure by putting the blame on others and they are ones who make big claims.
Spot the losers around you:
Take a notepad and write down the names of those who have been pulling you down and the ones who are winners in achieving their goals and write the names of losers under two halves; one who are very closer to you and the others who are less close. Now it is very easy for you to know whom to get rid of and whom to approach!
Change your contact details:
It is a very famous saying that a man is known by the company he keeps!
Spot the signs of losers in people around you and immediately get rid of them. If that person is not close to you then you do not even have to wait. But that does not mean to get rude. Just avoid them in any way by changing your contact details.
Live with the ones who pull you up or have gained success in life!
Try to spend most of the time with the people who encourage you or who have attained success in life. Even if you are living with those who have attained their dreams doesn’t mean that you will be successful like them but it will turn you into a better human being, somebody who is more content with what he has obtained in life so far.