First of all, acknowledge that you are no more with your spouse and you have to live without him or her. It will help you in looking ahead and will also assist you in eliminating your sad feelings.
You should also accept that you are hurt after getting divorced. But take it normal as many things hurt in life and people have to keep the ball rolling in order to live a happy life.
Time always passes away and your hard time will also pass away. Remain hopeful for a better future and also try to realize that this difficult time will no longer be with you after a few months.
After getting divorce, try to keep yourself busy in your routine work at home or at job. Do not let the bad feelings haunt you on consistent basis and try to think positive things.
Attend parties or gatherings with your friends and never miss any chance that could grab your attention in a positive manner.
Also think that there are many people who get divorce but they go on living a happy life. You can also do this by keeping yourself away from bad thoughts.
You should also release that it will take a few time to get rid of this traumatic condition. But keep trying to involve in other things that could keep you busy all the time.
Try to forgive your spouse if he or she has done wrong with you. Try to think positive for the upcoming days which will help you in getting rid from the sad feelings.