Valentine’s is one day that singles feel the most neglected when all love birds of the world are celebrating it in style. But there’s no need to let that affect you because this article will give you an insight into how you can ask the lady of your dreams out on Valentine’s Day. And in case, you’ve been meaning to ask a girl out for some time now, Valentine’s Day is the best choice to do it since this day, which gives a reason to celebrate love, may be the start of YOUR love story with her.
Mustering enough courage, initially if you’re the type of person who is passive and doesn’t make the first move is a good idea because you wouldn’t want to stand in front of the girl and realize you’ve blanked out on how and what to say.
Confidence, is the key to ask any girl out. If you reek off nervousness or low confidence, you will put the girl off right that instant and a low self confidence level reflects bad on your self esteem and personality, portraying you as somebody with a weak character.
Be neat and clean, because there’s nothing anyone hates more than bad hygiene. So it may help to shower, shave and be in presentable attire before moving towards the girl to ask her out for a date on Valentine’s Day.
Approach with a smile, this will not only show you’re confident in your own skin but also put her at ease, lowering her guards when approach.
Use your mind, when talking to the girl. If she’s responding in a manner that shows she’s uncomfortable, re-evaluate your conversation topics. If you think she’s getting bored, bring up topics that might interest her. Bring her on a certain comfort level before finally posing the question.
Add humor, in your conversation. There’s nothing more interesting than a great sense of humor because if you only show your serious side, it won’t be long before she ends up yawning right on your face!
Cockiness is another key ingredient in this recipe of a first conversation before finally asking a girl out on Valentine’s Day. But that doesn’t mean you’re overly arrogant or extremely funny. There’s a thin line that shouldn’t be crossed otherwise you will come off as somebody who is not in control of what you say.
Don’t be a show off, because this is one mistake most people do in the hope of ‘impressing’ the girl before they ask her out. Wrong move! Because it shows you’re full of yourself and a pompous idiot who cannot step out of his own shoes. Girls like good listeners, not incessant talkers.
Encourage her, to talk about herself. Ask her questions because that will show you’re interested in what she has to say. But be sure you aren’t too probing and personal with the questions raised.
Ask her out, but only after you’re sure she has been interested in you all along. Make sure you don’t come off too strong. Be gentle in your choice of words and the way you approach the topic. If you’re too upfront with the question, she may crawl back into her defensive shell and there is a chance you may spend the Valentine’s Day alone. Good luck!