First thing you should do in order to involve your partner more is by showing that you are hell busy even if you are not, secondly never let your lover feel that you are waiting for his call, even if you are. In order to pass your free time, make yourself busy in meeting people or socializing. You can also start doing something which will help you in passing your time.
The silly thing, or mistake which almost every woman does, is to whine like, “why didn't you call me yesterday, or last night". Never get glued with your expected partner.
The most important tip which appeals your partner a lot is to pay attention to his appearance. Your first impression or series of impressions will attract him toward you. Don’t go in front of him in a miserable condition.
Another best tip that will surely make your bond strong is to inflate his ego. Compliment your man on what he is wearing and how he is looking. Always make a lot of eye contact.