Helping Kids Focus on Homework
I always scored high on school testing so I knew my struggle was not a learning disability, it was simply a lack of focus I struggled with then and still struggle with today. As my daughter approaches school age I want to find ways to help her be more focused on her studies and to save the daydreaming for a better time.
Set a time
Pick a specific time of day for homework and stick to a routine. The time you choose will depend on your child’s temperament. If you have more than one child they should be doing their homework at the same time. If one child doesn’t have homework keep them busy doing something quiet and out of the way.
Some kids do well with doing homework as soon as they get home from school. They get it out of the way and have the rest of the night to do whatever they want. On the other hand some kids need a break once they get home and may do better having homework time right after dinner is over. This timing runs the risk of pushing back bedtime a bit though.
Set a Place
Have a place in your home for homework. This space should have a desk with all needed supplies and be in a quiet, out-of-the-way location. The less traffic and noise they child hears the more work they will get done. If you have more than one child try to see if they can work in the same space together. If they can’t you may have to set up separate areas for each child.
Eliminate Distractions
Make it a rule that there is absolutely no television viewing during homework time. Television is one of the biggest distractions kids have when trying to concentrate. Radios may be OK but this depends on your child. If you do allow the radio make sure it is set at a low volume and if it becomes a distraction remove it.
Keep preschoolers and toddlers out of the homework area as well. They are naturally curious and will want to see their brother or sister and find out what they are doing. This might be a great time for craft activities or reading. This will help them to understand “study” time so they are prepared for it once they start having homework of their own.
No Phone Call Rule
Once you have set a time for homework each day let your children know they cannot accept phone calls from their friends during this time. Phone calls will interrupt their thought processes and they could end up being on the phone for a long time. Tell them no phone calls while doing homework but they are free to call friends when they are finished.
The only exception might be to call a friend with a homework related question. If they ask to do this let them know you will be listening and the call must be limited to five minutes.
You Do Homework Too
If you don’t have toddlers to distract during homework time take this time to do your homework. This could be work you brought home or balancing your checkbook. You children will be more focused on their homework if they don’t feel like they are missing out on something you are doing.
All Kids Are Different
Remember each person has a different way of learning and processing information. I know when I am writing or working on something I need to concentrate on I have to get up and pace around my house at times. Occasionally I have to leave my house and go for a brisk walk to clear my mind in order to continue on my task. Tailor your rules to your child.
Communication
Keep the lines of communication open with your child. Try to remain upbeat no matter how hard things get for them. If you punish your child for neglecting homework when they are genuinely giving it their best try you may make things worse.
If Nothing Works
Don’t be afraid to approach your child’s teacher. They may have suggestions for helping your child to concentrate that you haven’t considered. If it turns out that your child’s focus is not the problem your child’s teacher may be aware of tutoring programs that your child can utilize.
You may want to consider that focus may not be the problem with your child. Some children have learning disabilities that disrupt learning no matter how hard they concentrate. They also may simply have too much homework. Talk to your child’s teacher if you feel this may be a problem.
Beware of the ADHD Label
I know some children have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) because I grew up with two brothers who have it. They were extreme cases and it has followed them into their adult lives. There are some who will slap this label on any child who has trouble concentrating and that is a bit unfair. Don’t be bullied into believing your child has this until your doctor has properly diagnosed it.
Wrap Up
It may take a bit of work on your part but if you start early you can help your child establish great study habits that will follow them throughout their education. Set them up to succeed and if all else fails, don’t be afraid to find help where it is available. Your child will thank you in the end.
