How to Keep Your Ex Interested

Breakups are always hard and some people have a difficult time moving on. While most breakups are irreconcilable, there are some cases where couples can get back together even after a breakup. However, in order for that to happen one person has to bring a radical change in his/her personality. If you are the same person who was dumped by your ex then you really don’t have a chance of winning her/him back. In order to keep your ex interested, you need keep some key points in mind.


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    The first step is to know if your ex still cares for you. Keeping her/him interested can only be possible if you have had a gentle breakup without the hostile drama.

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    Avoid communication for the first two weeks after the break-up.

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    Evaluate your personality and the reasons why she/he left you in the first place.

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    During these two weeks you need to change yourself, you cannot be the same person and expect to keep your ex interested.

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    After the initial two weeks, re-establish contact either by phone or by email.

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    See if she/he is still single, and if she/he has found someone do not be aggressive towards the other person because you cannot win your ex back this way. You were dumped because of him/her, so you now need to show that you are better than your ex’s latest choice.

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    Visiting your ex’s favourite pubs is another way to meet her/him and catch up on old times.

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    You need to show your ex that you are a changed person now. Remember you need to be the person she/her fell in love with which means some major changes in your personality should be in order.

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    Once reacquainted, plan a weekend together, if she/he is not ready yet, then take a step back and give her/him time to think over your proposal.

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    Try to avoid talking on the bitter memories of your relationship with the ex and focus on rebuilding the present.

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    Being friends after the breakup is the only option you will have, so be that friend for her/him who can lend a shoulder at any time.

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    Start flirting again to show interest and he/she might consider coming back to you and starting a new relationship.

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